Here in MDSF, we help children grow into thoughtful communicators. One important part of that growth is teaching them how to give and receive feedback at home, in school, and in everyday life.
When children learn to express themselves with care and listen with openness, they build stronger relationships. They also develop emotional intelligence, problem-solving skills, and self-awareness. These values reflect the core values of MDSF.
Here’s how MDSF parents can support communication and feedback development at home.
How to Teach Your Child to Give Feedback
Giving feedback means offering helpful comments that support growth. Children naturally speak their minds, but without guidance, their words may come across as too harsh or too vague.
Encourage specific and respectful feedback.
Model statements like, “You did great with this part. Maybe next time, try adding more details here.” Clear, actionable feedback helps peers or siblings feel encouraged and ready to improve.
Avoid harsh criticism.
Statements such as “That’s wrong” or “You’re not good at this” can make others feel discouraged. Guide your child to focus on what was done, not who did it.
Use daily situations to practice.
Whether it’s helping with chores or reviewing schoolwork, ask your child, “What part do you think went well? What would you improve?” Support them in framing their answers with kindness.
How to Teach Your Child to Receive Feedback
Feedback can sometimes feel personal. Children may react defensively or emotionally. Teaching them how to receive feedback is just as important as giving it.
Teach the value of listening.
Encourage your child to take a breath, listen, and ask questions. Responses like, “Thanks, I’ll try that” or “Can you show me what to fix?” promote maturity and growth.
Avoid reacting with denial or blame.
If your child says, “That’s not true,” guide them to reflect and ask, “What can I learn from this?” Learning to receive suggestions without taking offense builds resilience.
Practice through role-playing.
You can act as a classmate or teacher offering feedback. Let your child respond calmly. This improves their communication and emotional response in real-life situations.
The MDSF Way: Feedback in the Classroom
At MDSF, feedback is part of the daily learning experience. Students reflect on their progress, listen to their peers, and engage in respectful communication. Teachers use phrases like:
- “I noticed you helped your classmate. That was kind.”
- “Next time, double-check your answers before submitting.”
- “You stayed focused even when it was hard. That’s a great habit.”
Using similar language at home reinforces these habits. It also supports your child’s ability to feel safe and understood in every environment.
Moving Forward Together
Building communication skills takes time and patience. As MDSF parents, your role in supporting these lessons at home can make a lasting impact. Children who learn how to give and receive feedback grow into responsible, confident, and kind individuals.
Let’s continue working together to help every child at Montessori De Sagrada Familia thrive.
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